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My boyfriend ejaculated inside me twice without a condom. I had an abortion around February. What are my chances of being pregnant?


If 100 married couples were regularly having sex and using no contraceptive, the odds are that in one year 85 have the couples will have conceived a child. The fact that you killed an innocent baby conceived from your sinful life several months ago doesn't change those odds.

Your chance of catching a sexually transmitted disease is far higher.

But let's talk about your chance of getting to heaven at the rate you are going. "Or don't you know that the unrighteous will not inherit the Kingdom of God? Don't be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortioners, will inherit the Kingdom of God" (I Corinthians 6:9-10). On top of that you've committed murder. "Do not kill the innocent and righteous. For I will not justify the wicked" (Exodus 23:7).

Sex is just fleeting, momentary pleasure. But because of your willingness to sin, you conceived a child and because you didn't want to be bothered with its existence, you had it killed. And in your callous, cold-hearted life you went right back to sinning and the possibility of conceiving another child. At the moment your life is nothing more than that of an unpaid prostitute.

I hope and pray that you will leave your life of sin. If a child was conceived, turn the evil into something good -- give the child to a loving family to raise.


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