I had sex several times with my boyfriend. I feel nauseous and have been throwing up. I took a pregnancy test and it came back negative. I am supposed to have my menstruation in a couple of days and it hasn't come yet. So what does that mean? Is something wrong with me or him? I have a  three year old daughter from a previous relationship and he has a four year old daughter from a previous relationship. I am confused please help.


I had put your question on the back burner for a while because I have a hard time fathoming why a woman is purposely trying to bring children into the world when she is not married. Don't you see what it does to a child who can't count on the man sleeping with his mother to be there next year? It appears to be an act of complete selfishness on your part.

Please, make a commitment to a true woman. "Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge" (Hebrews 13:4).